Do unto others…..(part III)

October 16, 2008 in family

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We had just turned the corner and we could see the highway from the next light. The car seemed fine and hubby seemed to be calming down a bit. It was starting to get dark and I was getting anxious to get home and feed my family. I knew that the car would break down again but I have to admit, I was hoping it would at least get us home first. Well, hopes aren’t facts, and the fact was we were in for another adventure before we reached home.

We turned onto the highway and were on our way. It was still a bit of traffic from commuters on their way home, and that slowed up our trip. With a car that is prone to over-heating and the possibility of us getting stuck in more traffic on the way home, our odds for getting the hunk of junk home were not good. Usually I would remind Hubby of these things and urge him to take another way home, a back way no where near a busy highway, but I knew that this was the time for me to keep quiet. I said nothing and let him go on his way. We made it to the first of many exits we needed to reach in order to get home and like clock work, the car started to over heat again. This time, Hubby couldn’t even steer the car. He had to immediately pull over and turn off the car.

The ritual started again. The car was turned completely off, popped the hood and trunk, grabbed the bottle of anti-freeze and attempted to fill it up again. Obviously we were losing anti-freeze as well and that added fuel to the fire. I looked up and could see Hubby laying his head on the open hood. He was almost spent. I was waiting for him to say “uncle” but not yet. That stubborn streak in my boy definitely comes from his daddy. Hubby got back in the car, turned it on and attempted to drive a bit more. We made it half a mile before it completely stopped. Right on the highway. Fortunately, he was able to cruise it onto the side of the highway before it sputtered and dropped dead. This was it. Hubby just sat there. I looked out the window at the river that was under the highway’s bridge and just waited for it.

“This is all my fault.” He whispered to me.
“I’m sorry, what did you say?”
“This. All this is all my fault.”
I decided to play dumb and see if the lesson was fully learned.
“Uh, what do you mean?”
“All this is happening because of what I did yesterday. When I keyed that car.”
“Oh, yeah. I know. That’s why I laughed when it started smoking.”
I didn’t say I told you so. I wanted to…..I so wanted to, but I knew it wasn’t necessary. Karma had taken care of it for me and I didn’t have to say anything.

Luckily, I was smart enough to put roadside assistance on my cell phone plan when I got the new one, so I called and they came to pick us up from the side of the highway in about 15 minutes. Because we were in an awkward area and spot, we had to pay 16 bucks for the tow truck to come and get us. Funny thing is, if we would have stayed at that gas station and called then, it would have been free, would have saved us gas, anti-freeze and oh yeah, time. But hubby had to learn his lesson and we needed to be there for the ride.

We had the driver drop our car off at the Pep Boys near our house and my dad was there waiting to drive us home. Hubby had to call his boss and tell him he would be missing work the next day, thus having us lose even more money for the week. We were exhausted but relieved by the time we got home. I fed my boys(even the kitty), put the little one immediately into bed(poor thing was falling asleep at the dinner table) and sat down with hubby to watch a little TV before bed.

“So, you learned your lesson?” I asked with a big grin.
“Yes, I did. Sorry I didn’t listen.”
“So, you’re gonna listen to your wife now?! Holy crap!”
He laughed and I gave him a kiss on the forehead. Then I shooed him off to bed and cleaned up a bit.
He was out in 5 minutes flat. Boy, those Karma lessons can sure tucker a person out. Now, let’s see how long this lesson lasts. I’m hoping forever, but like I said, hopes aren’t facts.

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Rhonda October 16, 2008 at 1:25 pm

Great story! Why won’t men just listen……oh well, he learned his lesson! Cracked me up. Like JMO, you are a very good writer. I also liked your military series. Thanks for sharing your story.

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Katy October 16, 2008 at 2:47 pm

Amazing!! Even though it was a frustrating situation — being hungry, having car trouble, just wanting to make it home — your hubby came to the conclusion about his karma fate all on his own. And good for you for being able to hold back from saying “I told you so”! That would have been REALLY tough for me! :)
Hopefully little Sonny Boy was able to pick up on that karma lesson as well……nothing like seeing it all play out in front of you! Thanks for sharing this lesson with us!

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Jenny October 16, 2008 at 3:39 pm

What a perfect lesson for you DH to learn! and it made a great story too. Hope more people realize the same and behave better toward others. But I really hope that your car is not too damaged and won’t cost too much to repair.

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frugalsuz October 16, 2008 at 4:10 pm

Aww, jeez. What a day! I’m glad you all made it home safe and sound and hopefully your car will be up and running soon. What a great story and a valuable lesson for Sonny Boy & Hubby! :)

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Amiyrah October 16, 2008 at 4:41 pm

thanks ladies for the comments! Here’s the funny part: the car is fine! It was fine the next day. The guys at Pep Boys actually worked on it that night that we bought it there and the money that we ended up losing, we will get back next week since Hubby decided to work on saturday to make up for it lol. I did miss out on going to WAGs, A&P and CVS because of it but i’ll try to get to the drug stores on friday when I send off our bills. So, this really was a lesson that was completely learned on monday, and didn’t hinder us any more than it needed to lol. Gosh, I love the balance of the universe :o p

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centralillinoisian October 16, 2008 at 6:35 pm

I have not been reading the blogs from you guys for a couple of days and look at what I miss!!! I am glad that everything turned out okay in the end.

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Honeybunny October 16, 2008 at 9:18 pm

What a great example of karma. I hope it is a lesson he keeps with him.

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JennysMom October 17, 2008 at 12:12 am

Yep,you are some writer! What a story! And what a sweetie your hubby is, Amiyrah. He came to the conclusion that karma bit him all by himself. Kudos to you for keeping quiet.
My late spiritual teacher talked about karma many times. Some folks may think there’s ONLY bad karma. We have to remember there’s good karma too. Tell your hubby that the story, for all who read it here, will teach others a valuable lesson too. And then he’ll feel better for all the agony he went through.
Mahalo for sharing. Keep the stories coming! I’m no longer a lurker and have morfed into a devoted fan of your blog…

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CarolinaKid October 17, 2008 at 12:56 am

Wonderful story!! Some men grow up fast, some men grow up slower, and some men NEVER grow up!! Of course, the same can be said for SOME (very few) women. Howvever, I’m glad SonnyBoy is getting to see the whole picture of “what goes around, comes around” or in Biblical terms, “seedtime and harvest”. Perhaps if you relate it to him that way “honey, you planted “crappy car” seeds when you did that”, it will start to (haha) take root in his little male mind. BTW, make sure he STILL knows we miss you when you’re not on “da Pound”.
Again, great story. I miss not seeing any more “military woman” stories…

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Shelly October 17, 2008 at 1:47 am

Great story! I’m glad your hubby learned his lesson and that the car is okay!

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JennysMom October 17, 2008 at 5:02 am

I just finished listening to Randy Pausch’s The Last Lecture on cd which I got from the library. Randy was a professor at Carnegie Mellon and recently passed away from cancer at only 47. He left a wife and 3 young children (ages 5, 3 and 1).(It’s on You Tube and has received millions of hits.)
I thought of you, Amiyrah, with a quote of his in the last minutes of the lecture (attended by over 400 people): If you lead your life the right way, your karma will come to you…along with your dreams.

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JennysMom October 17, 2008 at 11:16 pm

Well this devoted fan of your blog, Dhunny, is now completely bummed. Where did the picture of Sonny Boy go? You replaced it with that pumpkin! ROTFLMA! I want my
“nephew” back–if only so his Auntie Jmo can gaze at his eyes. They’re as adorable as Grocery Boy’s, I tell ya!

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VA MOM OF 3 November 24, 2008 at 4:47 am

Amiyrah- OK- here is my official comment to enter into your giveaway! I totally related to this story- just like I can relate to your love of all genres of music! (I think we might be kindred spirits on some level!) Keep up the good work!

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