On Day 3 of the challenge, Kristen wants us to sit down, grab a pen and paper(or open a word document) and actually write down things that we love about our spouse. No matter how big or little it is, it goes on the list. She also makes a point of saying that things like “good dad” or “good husband” don’t count. The point is to write things that made your heart skip a beat when he did it in the beginning of the relationship.
I can’t really tell if this was a difficult or easy challenge for me. It took me some time to create the list in the assignment, but it was really great to have everything all on one page and immediately made a difference in how I see my Husband and I’s current relationship.
All and all, I do have to say it was a fun exercise. We do something similar to this every anniversary, but it was nice to just sit and do it, without Hubby right in front of me, and end up with a wonderfully long list.
I did go pretty personal with the list, so I’m afraid I won’t be sharing it with you all. I’m not sure what items he’d have no problem with me sharing to the internet world and which ones he’s dead-set against sharing.
So, if you are following the challenge, this one should be a interesting experience for you. Give yourself a few minutes and gloat on paper about your spouse. You just may see him or her in a new light once you are done.